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These days, one of the best ways folks have of continuing what they did in their guitar-playing youth, or in their CURRENT youth, is to play with friends. It’s always been critical to find good folks to play with, and who can challenge you on to greater heights. I know this was always a big thing for me in my “formative” years, and it helped me develop that ‘band in my head” that enabled me to continue my jamming and creativity even when there were no friends to play with.

It can get a little disconcerting if you are forced to do a lot of playing with folks who just aren’t up to your level, but who may still insist on controlling the musical situation….not much you can do but chalk it up to experience. On the other hand, it’s really good to play with people who actually may be more experienced, and just better than you, because it’s only then when you can really try to “reach” for a higher level for yourself. It also is a good way for you to sort of “check in” on the status of your playing, and see how it is faring against the real “backdrop” of other players.

It’s just a really good idea to do it, and to do it as frequently as possible. It’ll only serve to make you a better, more well-rounded player, and you’ll be getting a tremendous amount of experience that will help you in similar, if not even more “professional” situations in your future. You’ll be amazed at the times you’ll be playing years from now, and the sudden “flashbacks” you’ll be having from your early jamming days with your friends!

Posted: 1/11/2010 11:36:18 AM with 5 comments | Add Comment | Email Link | Permalink
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jim
Now that I'm back with the electric guitar, I'm starting to play with a friend from 40 years ago when we began doing the Beatles. Also, I found another friend who is an organ player who played the Zombies and Paul Revere & the Raiders in the '60's.

The sad thing for me is that when I was in high school, I had the opportunity to "step in" to guitar roles with existing bands - large R&B bands and blues bands with phenonenal drummers, etcetera. I even met Jeff Bova at Greenwich High School Music Dept. who showed me the ARP synthesiser. He was extremely friendly, a cool musician and keyboardist who later worked with Eric Clapton on the Journeyman album. Those days are gone.

Today, trying to find musicians is tough as nails. Bass guitarists are in short supply and so are good drummers. I guess I'm just going to sit in and do alot of blues jams at bars (if I can sum up the courage)!
1/13/2010 11:15:24 AM
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andre
Mr Roth, I really enjoy reading your articles. They have been really informative even for a beginner like myself.

My question is how do you find friends to play with when you picked up the instrument at a later age? I picked up the guitar for the first time at 21 and the only one I play with is my guitar teacher. My friends aren't into music that much and I already graduated so I can't find college groups or other musicians.
1/13/2010 12:51:25 PM
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David
Arlen, I love your lessons and you blog here at Gibson.com, and I have a question for you. I am currently playing in a band, with 2 other guitarists, bass, keyboards, and drums. The bass player and I are the most accomplished on our instruments in a rock band setting. How can we further encourage the others to step out of their roles and as stritly rhythm players, and improve their improv abilities? We are all in our 20s and 30s with full time day jobs and families, so time is really at a premium. I love playing in the group, but there are times I find myself getting bored and/or frustrated. How would you suggest I help out? Thanks
1/15/2010 1:35:43 PM
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Pamela Jo (Jojo)
David, the very best rockers to learn from - as far as simplicity and rock solid rhythm - are AC/DC and heavy doses of John Fogerty, especially with the Creedence classics. Once they are solid there, give them a charted graph of the A minor and E minor pentatonics. Then on to G minor and D Minor. Hal Leonard has an excellent Blues Method Book that is a bible for classic rockers, wanting to learn how to branch out into grabbing solos and riffs. Learning those old blues classics together can open up many possibilities for learning to improvise. Have a Joe Perry appreciation night, and see who can more closely mimic some of his searing licks... like maybe a couple from either Dream On, or Last Child. Use your imagination, and learning together will give you a bond that will show when you perform.
1/20/2010 9:23:33 PM
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buddy
arlen, I am 63 yrs old and been playing since 1960....mostly old time R & R...country, etc. Have played in lots of bands over the years, now just play with old retired buds at local nursing homes,etc..We all have a blast. I recently discoved your blog and your lessons on Gibson.com.....wow...thought I was pretty good...but, after viewing your lessons, tips and videos...I am nothing but a rank amateur...wish I had discovered you 30 yrs ago..have always wanted to play jazz stuff...and I have learned so much from your lessons and stuff...have arthritis in hands, so playing lead/solo stuff is difficult, but can still hold my own...if only for a little while...wish I had discovered you earlier...still can amaze some of these young pups....having more fun than ever...keep up the good work....and great tips/lessons...
thanks,
bud n texas
2/7/2010 8:35:34 PM
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